My Sunshine

She is my sunshine.

Her smile reminds me of sunrise.

Her legs are so sexy.

I have no doubts at all.

But the only way to know

If you can’t live without 

Someone is to first live with them.

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Is love truly blind?

What did Shakespeare mean by “love is blind?.” Is he saying the love world is full of blind men and women knocking their heads together like chickens in the dark? That people who love do not know what it is they see and love in eachother? There is not a single man or woman who does not know what he or she loves about the other partner. Love behaves as if it were blind to the highs and especially the lows but it’s not.

Yes You 

After I passed her,

I turned to steal a look again.

She too turn to look at me.

Our eyes met, she didnt blink

Or look away.

We both looked away again.

I turned back again and our 

Eyes met again.

It happened like four times.

Was she actually looking at me

Or somebody else?

So I pointed at myself and

Asked (or rather mimed): “me?”

“Yes You,” she nodded.

What does she want me for?

I’m not tamed.

Women and Intoxicants

It is impossible for a man

To fall in love without showing

Signs of intoxication.

Because in woman man finds wine.
But in man, woman finds

Something completely

Different, hard like a shield.

Intoxication has no place in a 
Woman’s heart so when a woman

In love appears intoxicated it is

A play meant to mimic man to sustain

His attention. Woman is rational.

Love of self

Those who have love in abundance do not normally base their love on reason. They love almost spontaneously because they derive some happiness or fulfilment from pouring their hearts out to others. The most impotent and fruitless form of love so far is selflove. It is without friction, as a result it’s like cold ashes and produces no flames. By self love I mean seeing and being concerned with only oneself in the universe.

Volitive selflessness

Volitive selflessness, I think that’s the definition of love. I may be wrong. But considering that most people are born narcissists, to love another person then requires a detachment from oneself. It involves a lot of effort on both parts. To be completely detached from oneself and to be attached to another human, then, is the goal of love, consequence notwithstanding. When two people decide to truly love each other their universe appears bigger, their experience of life lasts longer, their pain is less severe because it’s shared and most importantly their joy is frequent because there are multiple sources. This is possible only when two souls are sharing a single ‘self.’